The Bible encourages believers to draw closer to the Lord and cultivate a relationship with Him. In a committed relationship, it can be beneficial for both partners to grow spiritually together. Sharing in the pursuit of faith can strengthen the bond between partners and provide a solid foundation for the relationship. However, it is important to respect each other's individual journey with God. If one partner desires to draw closer to the Lord and the other does not, it is important to communicate openly and respectfully about this and find a balance that allows both individuals to pursue their faith. It is not necessarily good or healthy to restrain or hinder someone from getting closer to the Lord, as each person has a personal relationship with God that should be respected and nurtured.