The Bible does not advocate blame between couples but teaches love, forgiveness, and understanding. In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are instructed to love their wives as Christ loved the church, sacrificing himself for her. Similarly, in Colossians 3:19, husbands are instructed not to be harsh with their wives, but to be gentle and understanding. In any relationship, blame can lead to resentment and division. Instead, couples are encouraged to communicate openly, resolve conflicts amicably, and extend grace and forgiveness towards one another, just as God has shown us.